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7/7/08 ***** On the last Sunday in June, 1973, the UpStairs Lounge was firebombed. The resulting blaze killed 32 people. At the time, the bar had recently served as the temporary home for the fledgling New Orleans congregation of the Metropolitan Community Church. Founded in Los Angeles in 1968, the MCC was the nation's first gay church. It was the third fire at a MCC church during the first half of 1973. The church's Los Angeles headquarters was destroyed on January 27. That Sunday was the final day of Pride Weekend, the fourth anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising of 1969. Yet there was still no Gay Pride Parade in New Orleans. Almost two dozen gay bars dotted the French Quarter, but gay life in the city remained largely underground. Located on the second floor of a three-story building at the corner of Chartres and Iberville Streets, the UpStairs Lounge had only one entrance, up a wooden flight of stairs. Nearly 125 regulars had jammed the bar earlier that afternoon for a free beer and all you could eat special. After the free beer ran out, about 60 stayed, mostly members of the MCC congregation. Before moving worship services to their pastor's home earlier in June, congregation members had been holding services at the UpStairs on Sundays. But the bar was still a spiritual gathering place. There was a piano in one of the bar's three rooms, and a cabaret stage. Members would pray and sing in this room, and every Sunday night, they gathered around the piano for a song they had adopted as their anthem, United We Stand, by The Brotherhood of Man. "United we stand, divided we fall... And if our backs should ever be against the wall, We'll be together... Together...you and I." They sang the song that evening, with David Gary on the piano, a pianist who played regularly in the lounge of the Marriott Hotel across the street. The congregation members repeated the verses again and again, swaying back and forth, arm in arm, happy to be together at their former place of worship on Pride Sunday, still feeling the effects of the free beer special. At 7:56 pm a buzzer from downstairs sounded, the one that signaled a cab had arrived. No one had called a cab, but when someone opened the second floor steel door to the stairwell, flames rushed in. An arsonist had deliberately set the wooden stairs ablaze, and the oxygen starved fire exploded. The still-crowded bar became an inferno within seconds. The emergency exit was not marked, and the windows were boarded up or covered with iron bars. A few survivors managed to make it through, and jumped to the sidewalks, some in flames. Rev. Bill Larson, the local MCC pastor, got stuck halfway and burned to death wedged in a window, his corpse visible throughout the next day to witnesses below.
Bartender Buddy Rasmussen led a group of fifteen to safety through the unmarked back door. One of them was MCC assistant pastor George Mitchell. Then George ran back into the burning building trying to save his partner, Louis Broussard. Their bodies were discovered lying together. 29 lives were lost that night, and another three victims later died of injuries from the fire. The death toll was the worst in New Orleans historyup to that time, including when the French Quarter burned to the ground in 1788. It was almost assuredly the largest mass murder of gays and lesbians to ever occur in the United States. Yet the city tried mightily to ignore it. Public reaction was grossly out of proportion to what would have happened if the victims were straight. The fire exposed an ugly streak of homophobia and bigotry. It was the first time New Orleans had to openly confront the existence of its own gay community, and the results were not pretty. Initial news coverage omitted mention that the fire had anything to do with gays, despite the fact that a gay church in a gay bar had been torched. What stories did appear used dehumanizing language to paint the scene, with stories in the States-Item, New Orleans' afternoon paper, describing "bodies stacked up like pancakes," and that "in one corner, workers stood knee deep in bodies...the heat had been so intense, many were cooked together." Other reports spoke of "mass charred flesh" and victims who were "literally cooked." The press ran quotes from one cab driver who said, "I hope the fire burned their dress off," and a local woman who claimed "the Lord had something to do with this." The fire disappeared from headlines after the second day. A joke made the rounds and was repeated by talk radio hosts asking, "What will they bury the ashes of queers in? Fruit jars." Official statements by police were similarly offensive. Major Henry Morris, chief detective of the New Orleans Police Department, dismissed the importance of the investigation in an interview with the States-Item. Asked about identifying the victims, he said, "We don't even know these papers belonged to the people we found them on. Some thieves hung out there, and you know this was a queer bar." In the days that followed, other churches refused to allow survivors to hold a memorial service for the victims on their premises. Catholics, Lutherans, and Baptists all said no. William "Father Bill" Richardson, the closeted rector of St. George's Episcopal Church, agreed to allow a small prayer service to be held on Monday evening. It was advertised only by word of mouth and drew about 80 mourners. The next day, Richardson was rebuked by Iveson Noland, the Episcopalian bishop of New Orleans, who forbade him to let the church be used again. Bishop Nolan said he had received over 100 angry phone calls from local parishioners, and Richardson's mailbox would later fill with hate letters. Eventually, two ministers offered their sanctuaries - a Unitarian church, and St. Mark's United Methodist Church in the French Quarter. It was here that a July 1 memorial service was held attended by 250 people, including the state's Methodist bishop, Finis Crutchfield, who would die of AIDS fourteen years later at age 70. Although called on to do so, no elected officials in all of Louisiana issued statements of sympathy or mourning. Even more stunning, some families refused to claim the bodies of their dead sons, too ashamed to admit they might be gay. The city would not release the remains of four unidentified persons for burial by the surviving MCC congregation members. They were dumped in mass graves at Potter's Field, New Orleans' pauper cemetery. No one was ever charged with the crime, and it remains unsolved. Thirty-five years from now, let's hope we look back and wonder what the fuss over gay marriage was all about. But history won't remember anti-gay bigots kindly, whether they were cowardly murderers like the unknown arsonist who firebombed the UpStairs Lounge in 1973, or the people of New Orleans who callously disregarded a fire that took 32 of their fellow citizens' lives because it happened at a gay bar. Or today's misguided opponents of same-sex marriage. posted
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6/30/08 Regarding the photos I took at this year's Denver Pridefest -- I haven't posted them yet. It's like this, kids. I wanted to expand the capacity of my digital camera, so I could take more photos. I went to some local camera stores to purchase a memory stick for the camera. However, I discovered that no one carries the type of memory stick that my camera needs anymore and I was told I'd have to purchase the memory on the internet. However, that proved to be not very easy to do either and there was no guarantee that I'd receive the memory stick in time for Pridefest. So, I dug out my trusty old 35mm camera, bought a few rolls of film and used that for most of the Pridefest shots. The 35mm camera also has a wide angle lens I used for some of the shots. In addition, photos taken with the 35mm camera tend to be sharper than the digital camera and, unlike the digital camera, my old camera takes the shot exactly when I want to, while the digital camera takes a second or two adjust itself and sometimes, to my great frustration, the camera decides it doesn't want to take the picture at all, so I'll miss a good shot. The drawback to the 35mm camera, of course, is that I have to take the rolls of film in for developing. So, now I will have to find time in my schedule to take the rolls of film in, hopefully all the shots turn out, (haven't used the 35mm camera in quite awhile so I don't know if it's still in good working order) and then I'll have to scan the prints and post them on a new Pride 2008 page. With luck, I'll get that done before Pride 2009. posted
6/27/08 The police had picked a bad day to raid the club. Earlier in the day, the idol of many club goers, Judy Garland, had been laid to rest at Ferncliff Mausoleum in Westchester, New York, adding to a grumpy mood. Plus, the gay crowd had grown sick and tired of constant police harassment and intimidation. As the police began to leave, an angered crowd begins throwing bricks, bottles and even coins at the officers who retreat back into the Stonewall. The mob breaks down the door, screaming "PIGS!" and "FAGGOT COPS!" One terrified officer tells them "We'll shoot the first motherf---er that comes through." Protesters then try and set the bar ablaze, while the cops bash one protester in the head a dozen times. The plain-clothes police team was trapped inside the bar for over two hours before the the NYPD Tactical Patrol Force arrived and drove the mob from in front of the Stonewall. Police arrested and jailed many of the chanting gays. For the next few nights, the Stonewall Inn became the focal point of gay protests. The gay community began to organize and form committees to bring about change. For more info on the Stonewall Inn, see below.
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6/22/08
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6/21/08 JD
Doyle, the proprietor of QMH, has been quoted and his site given a
link in a Time Magazine article called "What Makes A Gay Song".
Check it out at: posted
6/21/08 2. - Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall. 3. - Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage contract. 4. - Straight marriage has been around a long time and hasn't changed at all; women are still property, blacks still can't marry whites, and divorce is still illegal. 5. - Straight marriage will be less meaningful if gay marriage were allowed; the sanctity of Britany Spears' 55-hour just-for-fun marriage would be destroyed. 6. - Straight marriages are valid because they produce children. Gay couples, infertile couples, and old people shouldn't be allowed to marry because our orphanages aren't full yet, and the world needs more children. 7. - Obviously gay parents will raise gay children, since straight parents only raise straight children. 8. - Gay marriage is not supported by religion. In a theocracy like ours, the values of one religion are imposed on the entire country. That's why we have only one religion in America. 9. - Children can never succeed without a male and a female role model at home. That's why we as a society expressly forbid single parents to raise children. 10. - Gay marriage will change the foundation of society; we could never adapt to new social norms. Just like we haven't adapted to cars, the service-sector economy, or longer life spans. Plus - Gay marriage killed the dinosaurs! DUH! posted
6/6/08
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